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Midlife crisis: Life assignment overdue

We were borne with nothing. As we grow older, wIth more experience, knowledge and skills, we are capable of earning more and more.
生命開始時,我們空手而來。長大後隨著經驗、知識和技能大大增進,我們能力賺取更多財富和其他無形的利益。

The more intense we quest and gain, the more we urge and hunt. The stronger the ego looks, the weaker the soul speaks.
當我們熱烈地尋求更多更廣時,卻發現越察覺人心渴求無盡。表面上,我們擁有越多信心越大,可惜成功和財富很易令人衝熏頭腦忘了聆聽內心的追求。

Sooner or later, there must be a time when we are no more satisfied with what we possess. More tragic, we tend to deny the unfulfilling experience deep inside and escape from the unsettled feelings. Instead, we seek instant gratification pretending that we have found the thing most desirable. These patterns of behaviors repeatedly unfold in many people during midlife regardless of their ethnic and social background.歲月如梭,人到中年對成敗得失漸漸沒看得那麼重,生命中曾經擁有過什麼了不起的亦不過是浮雲散聚,有多滿足?問誰悉透?片刻的空虛感原來是有益的,要好好把握它。心裏有什麼點欠缺便趕急找些什麼來填補裝出一副隨心所欲的模樣,而沒給自己充份時間和空間聆聽內心的呼喚,結果更糟。心理學家見過無數中年人有類同的經歷,似乎無分膚色種族和社會地位。

Psychologists coin the term “midlife crisis”. I guess it’s all about life assignment overdue. In terms of the Jungian model, midlife crisis is the opportunity when we discover how imbalanced our personality characteristics are and a new perception of what meaning of life one intends really pursue.

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適應轉變by Asperger代言人

不只是亞氏保加朋友,很多人對自己生活轉變或者望著別人的轉變,都會感到有些壓力。轉變是需要時間適應的,一分鐘?一日?一年?這要按照情況。而人為改變產生的抉擇,鵝認為收集各種意見之後,抉擇是需要加上自己的意願,否則日後會遇到困惑。

轉變的適應

原文及圖片:《讓父母們受點教訓》作者 羅健熙
http://hk.news.yahoo.com/blogs/slowlife/讓父母們受點教訓-014341545.html

by Asperger/亞氏保加/亞斯伯格代言人

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家長參予-園丁計劃2014

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社交故事 (Social Story)

給資優孩子的信:

越來越多家長留意資優孩子的內心世界,
社交故事對促進個人社交告情緒發展實在有效。
對於天資聰穎而又有亞氏保加症(一種自閉症) 特質的孩子的幫助更大。

目標:
– 幫助他們按以下的層次提升社交情緒的技能
1. 遇到不如意事情,引發負面情緒時,只懂得發脾氣,或作反叛性行為
2. 透過漫畫圖象化事件
3. 敢於憶述事件
4. 一起重溫當事人的感受
5. 師長能跟他討論問題的關鍵
6. 留意主觀的看法,學習擴闊自己
7. 感到被別人了解
8. 改進個人管理情緒的能力